Dating a guy 7 years older than me

Posted by / 16-Jun-2016 06:12

Dating a guy 7 years older than me

By Amy Rose Spiegel One of the most frequent Just Wondering questions we get here at Rookie is some variation on the following: “I’m a teenager and I’m thinking about dating/am intensely attracted to a person who’s significantly older than me. ” Well, as someone who not only has always been interested in older dudes, but has also dated quite a few of them, I have some things to say about your situation, question-askers.

When I was 15, I was dating a 28-year-old (cue gasping).

According to a recent survey of adult sexual behavior, men over the age of 40 were two to three times more likely to report a lack of sexual interest compared to men under the age of 30.

In many cases, that precipitous drop-off has to do with a natural decrease in testosterone, the male sex hormone that allows you to sustain an erection, ejaculate and have an orgasm.

However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.

That, by the way, is actually a comparison I made at the time, which is so gross to me now.

Among the biggest reasons that he likes you is because you're young.

Yes, he might be into you because you like the same bands and you act "mature for your age." (Has he ever told you that you have "an old soul?

" Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first.

Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit...

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(Um, probably don’t do this, you guys.) It wasn’t like I was stupid. But I didn’t have enough experience or wisdom (as opposed to intelligence) to completely understand what I was getting into.

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